You have resolved one of your two problems. The program is now running in the right directory. (Note the change in the CWD: information.) Now all you need to do is select the proper options to get OpenCL
Perhaps the problem is with the word "download". You may have already done this correctly, but I'll explain it anyway.
(I prefer the manual search method, but you can also use the automatic detection procedure.)
Go to
https://www.geforce.com/drivers and under "manual search" change any of the entries until the answers represent your system and click "Start Search"
It will give you a list of drivers that will work with your GPU. The first one listed is recommended although older ones may also work.
Download it and find the file (probably in "downloads") and double-click it. It will ask for permission to update your system and proceed to the checkmark page mentioned by bollix above.
(Personally, I choose to turn off Geforce Experience because I don't want to accept driver updates when I'm folding as it will crash the active WU. That does make me responsible for deciding when to upgrade to newer drivers, though.)